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Original: 3/19/2004 6:02 PM
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Friday, March 19, 2004

 

Now I'm stooping to take pictures through the windowscreen in the bedroom. What I didn't see was the little sparrow beside her. I did see I need to take this thing down and wash it. But it's been drizzly again today.

Got pool time in, ran insoles back to Foot Action for credit, stopped and had Pearl straighten and tighten my glasses again, got a card for a friend, hub and I ran out to Base Exchange for ID holders I had tried to buy before. Stopped at Wendy's for a baked potato. Then I found this in email. Makes sense to me.

This was written by an 83-year-old woman to her friend. *The last line says it all. *
 
Dear Bertha,
 
I'm reading more and dusting less. I'm sitting in the yard and admiring the view
without fussing about the weeds in the garden. I'm spending more time with my
family and friends and less time working.
Whenever possible, life should be a pattern of experiences to savor, not to endure. I'm trying to recognize these moments now and cherish them.

I'm not "saving" anything; we use our good china and crystal for every special event such as losing a pound, getting the sink unstopped, or the first Amaryllis blossom.
 
I wear my good blazer to the market. My theory is if I look prosperous, I can shell out $28.49 for one small bag of groceries. I'm not saving my good perfume for special parties, but wearing it for clerks in the hardware store and tellers at the bank.
 
"Someday" and "one of these days" are losing their grip on my vocabulary. If it's worth seeing or hearing or doing, I want to see and hear and do it now
 
I'm not sure what others would've done had they known they wouldn't be here for the tomorrow that we all take for granted. I think they would have called family members and a few close friends. They might have called a few former friends to apologize and mend fences for past squabbles. I like to think they would have gone out for a Chinese dinner or for whatever their favorite food was.
 I'm guessing; I'll never know.
 
It's those little things left undone that would make me angry if I knew my hours were limited. Angry because I hadn't written certain letters that I intended to write one of these days. Angry and sorry that I didn't tell my husband and
 parents often enough how much I truly love them. I'm trying very hard not to put off, hold back, or save anything that would add laughter and luster to our lives. And every morning when I open my eyes, tell myself that it is special.
 
Every day, every minute, every breath truly is a gift from God.

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I love Cardinals, it's my favorite bird.
This e-mail says it all.  I hope I heed this advice before ~I'm~ 83. 
Posted 3/19/2004 6:15 PM by pprJayO - reply

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I love Cardinels as well but we don't see them in the UK. From my sisters deck in Alabama we sit and watch cardinels, blue jays, hummingbirds also deer, racoons, opposums, squirrels etc, I was disappointed on a trip to California that the birds were not there . I shall be in AL again in May, getting excited already!
Posted 3/19/2004 6:33 PM by Annie49uk - reply

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The Dear Bertha letter says it all I think. I am close enough to 83 to be already living that way to a great extent.
Posted 3/20/2004 10:51 AM by riddiger Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply


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