I am being torn two ways. I just finally started getting along with my sister, but now her and my mom fight constantly. I used to side with my mom and always agree with her, but I don't want my sister to get mad at me. I don't want to choose sides but I feel like I have to.
I think this summer would be a perfect time to lose weight. I wish I had lost it before summer so I could wear a bikini, but I thought it would be smart to do it during summer. I will have plenty of time, my mom will work and never notice, and I will always have time to be on here for updates and for support. I could do it. It would be the perfect start to the new school year, and maybe, finally, I'll turn some heads.
Anyone have some suggestions on how I can earn some money? I seriously need some new bras, underwear, and jeans, but my mom won't budge. I hate having to hide under my hoodie jackets because I am embarrassed that my bra won't do it's job. Without my jacket on I look skinnier, but how can I do that when I am self conscience? I am also just running low on anything to wear, and its also embarrassing. I had a bitchy friend who decided to point out I had worn the same outfit once last week, and two days that week. It makes me mad and sad that I don't have enough clothes and everyone else has tons. I hate it!
Thanks soo much for the support guys! Love you to death! <3
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Summer is a perfect time to lose weight. The more water you drink, the more you'll lose. I hate having to take sides when my Mom and sister fight. I try to just be silent the entire time. I'm not sure how old you are but getting a summer job is a way to earn money. A lot of places start hiring now for the summer. I don't think your friend should say anything about what outfits you wear. I have a favortite pair of jeans that I have four pairs of and I wear them almost everyday. None of my friends say anything. Somedays I wear the same hoodie twice in a week. I don't see the problem. I hope you have a great night!
Take care
You could pawn some stuff, if you're 18. If not, you could babysit, put an ad up to walk dogs (get exercise that way, too!), you could wash cars, mow lawns, or collaborate with some girlfriends and do a yard sale.
pawn shops! sell your old cd's, video games, movies from when u were little...crap u don't need anymore. if you can find a used book store they sometimes buy books from ppl. u could sell stuff on ebay, or make things and sell them. and if u do get money then of course buy that new bra first. for clothes go to a thrift shop. there are also places in lots of towns that sell like lbs of clothes for a few bucks. try finding if your town has a place like that. and the BEST way to get new clothes: learn how to sew. and then take those t-shirts that don't fit you anymore and cut them up and make them look fierce! get some fabric paint, some zippers, and some buttons and u can make anything bland or boring look fabulous. i have TONS of clothes and i got it all from thrift shops.
yea i totallly agree wif everyone here.u shud get a summer job and dont feel upset bout being teased by bitches of ur clothes which u wore for uncountable times.i do tht alot.i wear jeans all the time.only save the minis n skirts for special dates or girls day out.in school u just need to dress wuts comfy and suits u.u hv my support hun.xoxo
hay girl....been awhile sorry havent showed to give ya some support...Im here if ya need me ...
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thank you. (:
i'm pretty good, except i've done absolutely nothing today except draw, listen to radiohead, and talk to this guy on aim. ha, but how are you?
Sorry about your mom and sister- it's hard to live with conflict but make a point in telling them you won't take sides, and then they won't blame you if you don't get involved. You could get a job in a store that is hiring for summer, and then you would get discounted clothes as well. Or you could tutor little kids in things like math and english, as that pays really well. As for your bitchy friend, ignore her comments. why would she count how many times you wear the same thing anyway?
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not too good actually, but getting my life together! I just struggled for a while trying to do everything at once- like workout, revise for exams, be social. But now things are getting back to how they used to be. Shame I have to gain 24lbs to sort it out though! how are you?
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oh sorry, I meant I have gained 24lbs- since 2 months ago. I hope your exams went well- thanks for the support!
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Nina Nothing
thanks love <3 ,
stay strong,
Nina Nothing
i know you can do it,
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Yeah I Realli Need To Lose Weight This Summer Too. It'll Be Great If I Reach My UGW By The Next School Year. I'd Love Too See There Faces When They See The New Me!!Lol!!
Can You Play A Musical Instrument? Cuz You Cud Try Teachin That To Some Friends For Money. Or You Could Trade Old Clothes With Friends Or Family.
Much Love...x
thanks. i hope they do get better. (: good luck for this summer!
much love and support ;;
sidney
thanks for the comment =]
you too <3
im doing somewhat fine. i just have been having a lot of moods and i have a big binge the other dayy. but im trying to get back on track. i went up 5 pounds and that made me really unhappy and depressed.
anyways how are you doing girl?
okay minus the fact that i blew up today entirely. like worse than i have in a long time, and i was all psyched about this challenge!!!! grrrrrr
well anyway i'm ignoring it. that's one day, so what if it's june already. i have basically all month or so i'm gonna keep telling myself lol
hope you're doing fine? <3
thank you so much for the positivity =] <3
hey love thanks for the comment =] means alot
thanks for the comment =]
i feel so much better now than yesterday just because i'm not pigging out. but i feel really tired and weak and it's only like... 4pm... worried how dinner will go over and if i'll have the energy to finish my cleaning today
how about you? <3
oh thank you doll. (: hopefully i can pull through this and get back on top. i hope you do well on your last exam. thank god i still have one more year of high school. i cant wait to go to college and not have to be watched by my parents. but they dont care about me and my brother anyways. oh well. i hope your doing well. stay strong!
much love & support ;;
sidney
haha good luck! you can do it
oh thank god i am helping someone. i feel like i have no place in this world. ah thats why i came to xanga. i originally had one but then shut it down because i was sure my parents were going to find it but then i could not function with just my friend. it was impossible. you have changed my life too. with all your support! i love it here its like were all connected and like family. we belong somewhere and we help eachother out. through good times and through bad times. that sounds really cheesy but it is so true.
much love and support (: ;;
sidney.