Monday, July 23, 2007
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Theories
"There's a danger in loving somebody too much"
Because when you're so in the midst of love
You become irrational
Falling in love is inherently unexplainable
But the only way to a successful relationship is being rational
No threats and rows
Have expectations which is fulfillable
Communicate in a way pertinent to each other
Minimize moments of being hysterical
Rational is not about selfish and reserved
But respect, tenderness, patience and understanding
Seize the days you have had
But let go when time comes
When somebody starts to pose threats and argue pointlessly
Step back and ask yourself
Does it worth holding on?
It's meaningless
It's easy to have a crush on somebody
But always difficult to make a relationship works
At a stage when you realize your directions and paces are different
It simply doesn't work
Try to change, compromise and wait
It's really hard times
The truth is that nobody on earth is perfect
There are times when things bother you
no matter trivial or important ones
making you struggle in agony
All because of love
So while still devoting your utter love to your beloved one
Being rational helps you to survive when things start to go wrong
Always remind yourself
Not to tilt the balance to either end too much
Simplify things that seem complicated
A relationship is like an exquisite cocktail
It's a mixture of passion and rationale in perfect portion
Your task is to take your guy/gal's hands and do it together
And it's always a difficult task
That's the theory anyway
It may not be apt to put theories into something of an intuitive nature
But it's better than you even don't endorse the theories
Keep learning, everybody~Theories... change it into practical then you learned it.
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