I think it's a lot simpler that the lists and the "what to look for." I used to think that I would marry the person who loved me unconditionally and unselfishly just the way I am. But that was wrong. Now, I think I would just like to marry someone who is wholly reliant and devoted to God. Someone who wants to marry me because of God's sovereignty and not because of his own desire. Guys who think with their sex drive are still terrible, but so are those who propose out of logic or rationale. It's incredibly attractive for a confident, successful, intelligent and stable guy to realize that there's someone else in control.