Friday, February 15, 2008

  • The show in Washington is going great.  Ed has called me a several times since he arrived and he is exuding such positive energy about it, I can't help but feel excited.  He's meeting all kinds of laid-back folks in the business and attending seminars.  Ed has such an attractive personality that he makes friends in seconds.  He's having fun, and learning a ton of information.  I am so relieved that it is going so well.  Ed having a good first experience with this is key,in my mind.  He thinks I would have loved it and he wishes me there... next year.


    Here at home, I've spent the day cleaning the house... much to the girls' disappointment.  I gave them a choice to help me by doing their jobs (pick up toys, put things away, put laundry--that I washed, folded, and sorted--into drawers) and I would double the amount that their grandmother sent them for Valentine's day and then take them to Target this weekend to spend it OR they could sit around and pick their butts while I cleaned up... but there would not be any money, trips to Target, or any other fun courtesy of Mama.  In addition, I would not clean up their rooms, and I would dump their stuff (found in other rooms) onto their bedroom floor.
    They chose to pick their butts.

    I managed to:
    Completely wash/fold/sort seven loads of laundry (most of which I picked up from their bedrooms).
    Cleaned and vacuumed our bedroom/bathroom.
    Picked up (not a quick job... you have to understand that if I let a couple days go by then every single room in the house has to be picked up because my girls leave their crap everywhere... another bed I made for myself) and vacuumed the upstairs hallway.
    Put away all the "this and that" covering my (very long) dining room table.  It is a clutter collector.
    Sorted and dealt with this week's tower of school papers.
    Sorted and chose photos to fill two more collage frames.
    Hung one of the ceramic pieces Miss A. made for me over the doorway to the kitchen.  It's a plaque with our surname, cut from wet clay and stamped/decorated/painted by her, and it looks great.
    Decrapped the foyer and hung up/put away the plethora of coats/hoodies/scarves/shoes that were left there.
    I thought they might be inspired by my example.
    Nope.  They just kept on with the butt picking... and complaining.  And fighting.  And whining.  I'm sorry, but my children are spoiled rotten when it comes to cleaning up after themselves.  Spoiled because it has always been much easier to do it for them than fight.  Lame parenting.  I'm working on it.  I do not force them to clean their rooms, if they want to live in a mess and never find anything of theirs then that is their choice... but family areas are where we are all responsible to keep it livable.

    Weekends with Mama, while Dad is away, aren't so much fun.

    More lights/hieroglyphics in the sky in Texas last night.  I am still watching what happens, incredibly intrigued. 
    UPDATED: To add link.


    More young people bleeding and dead.

    I am numb to it.  Are you?
    Always unexpected, less shocking with each event.  This sickens me about myself.
    Love and healing energy to the victims in Illinois, and their families.
    Love and peace to the family of the killer, and may the killer find himself at the feet of karma.

    Peaceful blessings.
    Good night.

Comments (19)

  • merridian
    I'm the same way; I don't make my kids clean their rooms most of the time.  On occasion I have.  But usually, I let them just deal with their own crap.  The only thing I require is to be able to walk to their beds and back when I come to tuck them in.  If their mess is in MY way, I refuse to tuck them in.
  • soNOTcool

    Just curious ... Did you ever find the regular-type video (as opposed to the pulse video) of the particular siting we discussed last week?  I'm so curious to see it without the pulse for a better perspective.

  • JennyG
    No I didn't. But... I believe that the pulse is how the lights actually are appearing, changing shape every 15 seconds or so (I could be way off on that number).
    There's nothing else that I can find.
  • soNOTcool

    It says on the site that it is "pulse video", which means that what they are showing us are basically two-second snapshots ... not a continuous flow of video.  I don't doubt that the real video exists (because they actually mention the actual video on the site and the fact that you can hear the videographer talking in the background) and I think that perhaps the person who bought it from the videographer is holding tight to it for copyright-type reasons or just showing the highlights. 

    Maybe it'll be available sooner or later.   

  • JennyG
    Ah... I see. Thank you for clarifying. I thought the lights were actually pulsing as they changed shape. I don't pay very good attention.
  • soNOTcool

    Well, they might be ... That's why I'm so curious to see!

    Despite all my skepticism about god-things, I am always intrigued and fascinated by real things, like other intelligent life, evolution, etc.

  • JennyG
    And it wasn't yesterday either, the second sighting. I could have sworn I read that it was yesterday, but I can't find that now.
  • soNOTcool

    When I researched it after your first post on it, I thought that there were several sitings on different dates in that same area (throughout the month of January).  Maybe it was just two, but I got the feeling that there were more.  I did some of my research on youtube, so you might want to try that.  I found several news stories on it (via youtube).

  • midnightmegan
    I just wanted to drop a note for the note about NIU.  I do not go to NIU, but live less than 30 minutes from there.  I have been there hundreds of times for school, friends, and something to do in a bigger town.  I thought about going there twice (this semester, for one!) and each time went to Western Illinois instead, I think now, luckily.  I have so many friends there, it is surreal.  It is crazy to turn on CNN and see the whole thing and to be like I know that place, and that one...I have so many friends up there, and I know they as well appreciate the support.  One friend knew the shooter, he graduated with her, same major.  The more we talked, I think I met him once, when visiting her.  Her (and my) friend from high school had a boyfriend in the classroom.  Another girl from high school was right outside the door and heard it, she just ran.  The lady I work with has two daughters there, and they both should of been in the area but due to reasons only god must had planned, they were not there at that time on that specific day.  purely a miracle.  It is so sad.  Sorry to go on there, it just feels good to talk a little.  It's just so screwed up, I don't know what to think. 
  • BlueCollarGoddess
    Interesting ... how life just keeps moving forward. 
    I Love You!
  • notforprophet
    I am numb to the news/videotape/coverage of it.  But not numb to the awakening reality of it.  Our society and culture are ever-screaming: Get ready!     I believe that I will have a chance to dodge the bullet if I can see it coming.
  • JennyG
    Yeah. I feel the "get ready" too.
  • kitkatsplash
    can't wait to watch the coffee business unfold. You are one busy momma! Much love.
  • nursetracy
    Wow, to think that Ed is about a half-hours drive from me in D.C!  Despite the bad press and crime, there really is so much to do here--I didnt even know that the coffee expo is going on.  As my BF is a restaurant manager, we have been to several food and beverage expos in the area over the last couple of years.  A couple of years ago, we went to one at Dover Downs.  I wish we had spent the night! (not the money spent on losing at slots!)
  • Tom
    Actually I'm a bit more forward-thinking: I can't wait until your coffeehouse starts opening outlets around the country!
  • JennyG
    Tom... you kill me
    Tracy... Dover is just about an hour from me, maybe less.
  • maralite
    "Now is the time for the interview." March--pick a Sunday. Love you
  • radicool42
    I had a dream that there was a reality show for xanga blogs, and you got voted off, and i was so mad! It was one of those where i didn't realize it wasn't real until like ten minutes ago when i got on the computer...anyway, just telling you that you would totally win any hypothetical blog reality show in my book.
  • SuSu
    Trying to teach kids by example can be very frustrating and unrewarding in the short run, but my longterm results have convinced me that it has been worth the effort... or, at least, that I would not have been happy with the results if I had tried using force.
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