Saturday, June 09, 2007

  • Keeping in touch

    A couple of years ago, I went to a class reunion for my elementary/middle school class at Maryknoll, the former all -Japanese private school in Los Angeles. It was a pleasant get-together. I exchanged niceties with many of my former classmates and we exchanged email addreses and other miscellaneous contact info--including this blog--through a booklet of information distributed to everyone in computer file form.

    But seriously, it had been decades, literally, since I had seen or even talked to virtually any of them. So imagine my surprise when I received an email from a girl... um, a woman... I used to sit next to in the First Grade. What makes it noteworthy is that I was just thinking about her the other day--in fact it was the very same day she sent me the email!

    I was cleaning the area around my desk--finally--and came across the original invitation/announcement to the reunion... Yes, my desk is THAT messy. I looked at the return address on the envelope--DH--and my mind kinda floated back to the First Grade. I'm not sure if I've written about this before--I think I am manifesting the early signs of Alzheimer as I have very poor memory retention these days--but I recall having DH as a deskmate back then. If memory serves, each vertical row of desks in class were made up of two desks horizontally aligned with each other. Bolted down onto wooden rails, these sturdy desks with solid wood desktops and ink wells (!) were presumably our first line of defense in case of an atomic bomb attack--the ridiculousness of duck and cover drills can only be appreciated in hindsight.

    Anyway, back then, DH and I often chit-chatted, but I think our teacher, Sister Angela Maureen, finally had it with us and decided to put an end to our chatter by closing our mouths with an "X" of two strips of Scotch tape. Amazingly, it worked, at least for me. Obviously, cellophane tape is not strong enough to keep my mouth closed, but the embarrassment of Scotch tape X'ed over my mouth from upperlip to chin was enough to quiet me down for the rest of the afternoon. I still remember the bottom part of the X coming loose and the cellophane tape dangling from my upper lip, but still I could not bring myself to say a peep.

    In any event, you can imagine my surprise at receiving an email from my first grade conversation partner on the same day I was recalling our experience. It makes me wonder if we Maryknollers--or perhaps anyone who basically lived with each other day to day for almost ten years during their formative years--are connected in some cosmic way...

    Nah! 

Comments (11)

  • enygma81
    If I could get away with it, I would totally tape my students' mouths shut.  Unfortunately, I would probably get sued for abuse or something.
  • onigiri
    Just think, if a teacher Scotch taped a kid's mouth today!

    XD

    All of my elementary school friends ... I hardly talk to them now. Or keep in touch. It's such a joke though, in our yearbooks writing "keep in touch!" and not keeping that promise. D:

    Or maybe that promise takes ten years or so to age before it comes true...
  • TheGooberBoy
    "Sister Angela Maureen"? Was it a Catholic- or Jesuit-run all-Japanese school? When I first read "all-Japanese school", I thought of the Chinese schools you can find today that focus on teaching Chinese language/culture to second- or third-generation Chinese Americans...
  • lionne
  • gokingsgo
    we need to grab a beer again at your next reunion.
  • SunJun
    That's pretty funny. Perhaps all those years together has created the same tendencies in many of your classmates, triggering those memories and urges at the same time.

    BTW - Been meaning to ask: any advice on the NoVa real estate market? I'm prepping to move up there this summer. My initial look into it though gave me a touch of sticker shock...
  • starberri92

    I still keep in touch with one of my elementary school friends.  It takes lots of time and effort but it's worth it.  I believe in cosmic connections!  :P

    Ryc: Umm, I'd rather keep them as pets than food lol.

  • iiSoNySoUnDii
    I hope that I still have those connections with certain friends in years to come. I can't wait for any of my class reunions because I'll be the fake millionaire/astronaut/CIA agent.
  • ydurp
    Geez, I remember you going to that.  Has it been that long ago that I was reading you every day?  I've really cut the time I spend on here now.  I even quite for a while.  Very cool that you and she connected.
  • randomguru
    i think that's awesome that you've been able to keep in touch with old friends and classmates over the years.

    recently, my old high school dance band had gotten together for the first time in like 30 years... wow! it was pretty surreal.

    but yeah, great story...

    btw, don't forget us at the RBJ Forums
  • EnderSatomi
    sensei, have you dissappeared from xanga? =(
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