Friday, August 19, 2005

  • Take a stone, place it in your hand...  throw it as far away as you can... its inevitable that you will see it land... invariably not as far as you wish you'd thrown it. Still, it is far enough away that you eventually forget about it. all metaphors aside.  Life is quite like throwing a stone out in front of you.  You never quite know where it will land. What way things will pan out.  Being an optimist, I concern myself more with the present.

    There are moments when I figure things out about life,  about people... a new understanding about the why's of life.

    It is simple when you figure it out.


    I wish there were easier ways though...  I wish it was as easy as ordering 6 bottles of champagne for the honeymoon.

    Such is life I guess, such is the wonder. It seems sometimes hard to grasp that happiness arrives when it wants to and frustration appears so dominant. I crave a simple existence but know deep down that I can get nothing without first working for it.  And only by working for it can I find satisfaction in having it.  I fear that life and my joy will somehow be snubbed out some day before I have time to grasp it. My silent destiny.

    There are time when I write here and I feel the need to explain what I write,  and other times I take joy in letting others take what meaning they will from my ramblings. Such is this evening.

    Deep in my soul (if I have one) I feel a longing for the peace and tranquilty of a French Villa... I feel a resentment for every moment I must spend before I can be there.  I need space and no phone calls for at least 10 days...  thats all I need right now... to recharge my core.  To fill myself without stress.. to gorge nothing  to feel numb from the waist down.  My heart torn beween wanting to get away and on the other hand wanting to linger inevery moment. It is these last few days before you get married that you stand in a sort of median...  a mid way point... Where I should be busy but then again should be chilling out.  I'm on the verge of just giving up... just work wise,  I so need moments where I don't talk about work... contracts... work... sh!t I'm doing it again.

    It is almost 1am, I 've just come back from a lovely dinner with friends... where my mind wanted two more pints  but my head knew I had things to do.  I have this feeling constantly,  like I need to celebrate but I can't cause its not quite time.

    I surely will explode on the 9th or 10th of september...  an explosion of love,  kind jesture  and the full knowledge that I don't have to do anything other than enjoy myself for the next three weeks.

    I decided something this today, that on the ten days running up to the wedding I should have delivered in consecutive order,  ten, then nine,  then eight , flowers.. preferably roses... certainly white ones...  to my darling.  That way she will have no doubt as to when we are getting married.  Not that it isn't front page news at the moment.

    There is one thing I must do now... that is go to bed...

    I bid you Adieu

    There are 504 Hours left before I get married ... 168 of those I will sleep... 60 I will work... like real work...  I'll spend about 2 hours showering... about  5 cycling,  another 10 in the car, 4 hours finishing  invitations, 2 sorting rings, 10 eating. 21 tring to go asleep... 21 tring to get up in the morning, 15 visitng people.

    That leaves 220 hours of other stuff I'm just to lazy and tired to mention.

    I'll never come back to this.

Comments (1)

  • dori_d
    I think the idea of the roses is a beautiful one! What a lovely romantic sentiment you have about you! It will come time soon enough, and then your life forever changed...
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