So here's my situation. I will try to make it as simple as possible.
I like guy A. He doesn't know I exist. Okay, so that's a common enough problem. It gets worse. I used to like guy B. He was one of my best friends, but he started dating one of my other best friends. When they broke up, there was this huge mess that almost ended up with me refusing to speak to my friend ever again. Guy B left our little group of friends and I haven't talked to him since. I want to, but I can't. I still like him, but I want to be over him, because I like guy A. I don't think I am over him yet, but it's been a year and we don't even talk anymore. I keep saying I just miss him as one of my friends, but I can't help thinking that it's not true. And then my friend, the same one who used to date guy B, hates guy A and doesn't want me to like him. She told one of my other friends, we'll name him guy C, that if he asked me to our dance I would say yes, which is true because he's my friend, but I'm afraid he'll start thinking I like him, which is not true and I would hate to be put in the situation of saying so. So he asked me, and I said yes, but I'm still afraid of that! So it's basically between 3, one of whom doesn't know I exist, one of whom I haven't spoken to in a year, and one of whom I don't actually like. What the bloody hell is going on, that's what I want to know. I don't know my problem exactly, just that there is one and it needs to fixed, and I don't know how. Help, O bloggers, I entreat you.......
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You're young. You need not concern yourself with matters such as this quite yet. Enjoy being young and free. If you do that, the right person will come along naturally without the need to force things that aren't there or don't stand a chance of lasting. I've been saying the same thing to my niece and her friends.