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Country: United States State: Texas Birthday: 8/22/1974 Gender: Male
Interests: Reading, muscle cars, motorcycles, HTML design, Photoshop, computers, a few more... Expertise: MCSE Extraordinaire! Occupation: Engineering Industry: Computers (Hardware)
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| Have you ever met someone that you were completely comfortable with from the start?
Does that person know you well enough to read you like a book?
Vice versa?
Have you and that person spent countless hours talking? Laughing? Crying?
Do you have a best friend?
A lover?
A confidant?
I have found all this and more recently...
Three hundred sixty seven days ago I met Lorie.
Three hundred sixty six of them have been amazing.
Here's to US, for the last year, and the next billion.
I love you Lorie! | | |
| Way too much going on..
Not all of it good..
Hope ya'll are good.. | | |
| Looking back, it's hard to believe that we have lived as long as we have..
My mom used to cut chicken, chop eggs and spread mayo on the same cutting board with the same knife and no bleach, but we didn't seem to get food poisoning.
My mom used to defrost hamburger on the counter AND I used to eat it raw sometimes too, but I can't remember getting E-coli.
We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors, or cabinets, and when we rode our bikes we had no helmets.
We played with toy guns, cowboys and Indians, army, cops and robbers, and used our fingers to simulate guns when the toy ones or my BB gun was not available.
Some students weren't as smart as others or didn't work hard so they failed a grade and were held back to repeat the same grade. That generation produced some of the greatest risk-takers and problem solvers. We had the freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all.
Almost all of us would have rather gone swimming in the lake instead of a pristine pool (talk about boring). The term cell phone would have conjured up a phone in a jail cell, and a pager was the school PA system.
We all took gym, not PE... and risked permanent injury with a pair of high top Ked's (only worn in gym) instead of having cross-training athletic shoes with air cushion soles and built in light reflectors. I can't recall any injuries but they must have happened because they tell us how much safer we are now. Flunking gym was not an option... even for stupid kids! I guess PE must be much harder than gym.
Every year, someone taught the whole school a lesson by running in the halls with leather soles on linoleum tile and hitting the wet spot. How much better off would we be today if we only knew we could have sued the school system.
Speaking of school, we all said prayers and the pledge and stayed in detention after school and caught all sorts of negative attention for the next two weeks. We must have had horribly damaged psyches.
I can't understand it. Schools didn't offer 14 year olds an abortion or condoms (we wouldn't have known what either was anyway) but they did give us a couple of aspirin and cough syrup if we started getting the sniffles.
What an archaic health system we had then. Remember school nurses? Ours wore a hat and everything.
I thought that I was supposed to accomplish something before I was allowed to be proud of myself.
I just can't recall how bored we were without computers, PlayStation, Nintendo, X-box or 270 digital cable stations. I must be repressing that memory as I try to rationalize through the denial of the dangers could have befallen us as we trekked off each day about a mile down the road to some guy's vacant lot, built forts out of branches and pieces of plywood, made trails, and fought over who got to be the Lone Ranger. What was that property owner thinking, letting us play on that lot. He should have been locked up for not putting up a fence around the property, complete with a self-closing gate and an infrared intruder alarm.
Oh yeah... and where was the Benadryl and sterilization kit when I got that bee sting? I could have been killed!
We played king of the hill on piles of gravel left on vacant construction sites and when we got hurt, Mom pulled out the 48 cent bottle of mercurochrome and then we got our butt spanked. Now it's a trip to the emergency room, followed by a 10-day dose of a $49 bottle of antibiotics and then Mom calls the attorney to sue the contractor for leaving a horribly vicious pile of gravel where it was such a threat.
We didn't act up at the neighbor's house either! Because if we did, we got our butt spanked (physical abuse) ... and then we got our butt spanked again when we got home.
Mom invited the door to door salesman inside for coffee, kids choked down the dust from the gravel driveway while playing with Tonka trucks (remember why Tonka trucks were made tough... it wasn't so that they could take the rough berber in the family room), and Dad drove a car with leaded gas.
Our music had to be left inside when we went out to play and I am sure that I nearly exhausted my imagination a couple of times when we went on two week vacations. I should probably sue the folks now for the danger they put us in when we all slept in campgrounds in the family tent.
Summers were spent behind the push lawnmower and I didn't even know that mowers came with motors until I was 13 and we got one without an automatic blade-stop or an auto-drive. How sick were my parents?
Of! course my parents weren't the only psychos. I recall Donny Reynolds from next door coming over and doing his tricks on the front stoop just before he fell off. Little did his mom know that she could have owned our house. Instead she picked him up and swatted him for being such a goof. It was a neighborhood run amuck.
To top it off, not a single person I knew had ever been told that they were from a dysfunctional family. How could we possibly have known that we needed to get into group therapy and anger management classes? We were obviously so duped by so many societal ills, that we didn't even notice that the entire country wasn't taking Prozac!
How did we survive? | | |
| Mason turned eight today!
That's right.. My step-son turned eight years odl today.. I'm so very glad to have been here to celebrate it!
A child at play.. Is there nothing more innocent? More pure? More care-free and wonderous? Not that I know of..
I'm so in love..
No.. Not just Lorie.. My family.
My new family.. My existing family.. The soft, comfortable bed life has laid me down in.. Sure, the flight was bumpy as hell, but I'm here..... Where I'm supposed to be.
You know.. Amidst all the hustle and bustle, I found myself singing a song in my head, and wondering and hping that it would mean something to Mason.. It goes a little something like this (Warning! I sit hear tearing up listening to this..):
When a single mom goes out on a date with somebody new, It always winds up feeling more like a job interview. Momma used to wonder if she'd ever meet someone, Who wouldn't find out about me and then turn around and run.
I met the man I call my dad when I was five (eight?) years old. He took my mom out to a movie (or the beach?)and for once I got to go. A few months later I remember lying there in bed, I overheard him pop the question and prayed that she'd say yes.
And then all of a sudden, Oh, it seemed so strange to me. How we went from something's missing, To a family.
Lookin' back all I can say, About all the things he did for me. Is I hope I'm at least half the dad, That he didn't have to be.
I met the girl that's now my wife about three years ago. We had the perfect marriage but we wanted somethin' more. Now here I stand surrounded by our family and friends. Crowded 'round the nursery window as they bring the baby in.
And now all of a sudden, It seemed so strange to me. How we've gone from something's missing, To a family.
Lookin' through the glass I think about the man, That's standin' next to me. And I hope I'm at least half the dad, That he didn't have to be.
Lookin' back all I can say, About all the things he did for me. Is I hope I'm at least half the dad, That he didn't have to be.
Yeah, I hope I'm at least half the dad, That he didn't have to be. Because he didn't have to be. You know he didn't have to be. | | |
| What with all the sadness and trauma going on in the world at the moment, it is worth reflecting on the death of a very important person which almost went un-noticed last week. Larry La Prise, the man who wrote "The Hokey Pokey" died peacefully at age 93. The most traumatic part for his family was getting him into the coffin. They put his left leg in... and then the trouble started. | | |
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