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Original: 6/2/2006 6:36 PM
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Friday, June 02, 2006

God is so good...

 

 

As you can probably guess, the first picture is my Grandma and Grandad, and if you're really good..*wink* you can gather than the next is us grandkids with them. If this is what you guessed, then kudo's to you. You've qualified for a free comment on my site!!! If you didn't guess that...well, I suppose you can still have a free comment...but keep it short...I charge by the letter Alllright, end to the sillyness.

As some of you might've known, my family went down to Abbeville, SC to be with some of the rest of my Aunt's, Uncles and cousin's to celebrate my dad's parents 50th wedding anniversary. One of the complications we knew was going to come up, was the fact that my grandfather has been a Alzheimer patient for the past half-decade or more. He has been quickly losing more and more of his memorie's, to include knowing how to get dressed, and other common daily functions.

We recently moved him to an assisted living facilty, because of the drain it was continuing to be on my grandmother to have him at home. Since then we have been more than very impressed with the staff and general "facility's." This is a place that, when you walk in, you can't tell that older people live there. The staff are on constant rotation, and are very adept in communicating lovingly and caringly to the patients - especially it seems to my grandad.

Now, all this being known, our family still decided that it would be a good thing to come down and visit and commemorate the fifty faithful years that my grandparents have been married. Having just come back this evening from that, I can tell you right now that that decision was a good one. Even though my grandfather had to be told constantly by my grandmother why all these people were here, he never ceased saying, "Thank you," and "You don't know how much this means to me." It was hard seeing his state of being, but we were all so amazed by the fact that his love, his care, his affection for my grandma was never dimmed or dulled. My dad had told us all before we came down to visit, that grandad was going to be very much not the same; but nonetheless, this was something we needed to do to honor the man that my grandfather has been all his life. This was something that went far beyond being "a good thing."

I want to thank all of you who prayed/who have been praying for my grandad and grandma through this time, and for this trip in specifically. It was quite apparent that y'all were praying. My grandma kept on saying that it could not have gone better...so I thank you. God Bless you all, and please keep these two precious people in your prayers, I know they appreciate it. In His Service,

-Tim

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Wow. That's really neat. Major props.
Posted 6/2/2006 8:40 PM by penguinsdigpsychology - reply

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looks like a sweet trip. look forward to seeing you sunday!
Posted 6/2/2006 8:58 PM by jkplayschess - reply

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Very cool! 50 is awesome!

And I love the song! I have it on my Zen, and I listen to it all the time.
Posted 6/2/2006 9:42 PM by PippinTheJedi - reply

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What if I guessed that you took some random pictures and had them pose as your grandparents. No just kidding, I understand what that can be like. It was very brave of you all to go down there and do something like that. There that's my short post.

Posted 6/3/2006 8:08 AM by Ringwraithsilver - reply

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Well, if you guessed that, then...well, thats you
Posted 6/3/2006 12:08 PM by RkticFox - reply

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I guessed it...but then again, I read your whole post too, so if I were wrong, I could have just said that I knew that. *grin* But I'm not a liar so...yeah.

I'm so glad you're home! YAY! AND I'm so glad your time with your grandparents was so fruitful and wonderful...I love spending time with my grandparents (mostly ;)- ) and yesterday I got to see my *GREAT* grandparents. Grandpa W. is a retired pastor, and Gramma W. is an AMAZING woman. She's so tiny...always has been...my great-grandpa prayed at my mom and dad's wedding...if he lasts a few more years, I would love to have him pray at mine. He's one of the most powerful pray-ers (is that even a word?!) I've ever heard.

I am so being charged a billion dollars for this comment. Sorry ;)
Posted 6/4/2006 9:30 PM by kenzybeth - reply

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I love the song (Step by Step) that you're playing on here! It encouraged me greatly, and I love to sing it praising my Abba Father! Thanks for sharing with us=)

Very moving post. Never stop loving your Grandad...remember him as you did when you were younger. He is still the same personal phyiscally, even if he's not mentally, I know God has a big plan for your family in letting this happen.

*Sending you a sister to brother hug*

Posted 6/5/2006 9:38 PM by Katie4Him - reply

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Heya Tim!  I was looking through Laura's contacts and found your Xanga. :)  Oh... this is Melissa BTW. =D

I will pray for you grandparents.

Posted 6/8/2006 6:09 PM by highonlife1988 - reply

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I'm so glad it went well. My grandparents are rather elderly and quite frankly, losing it. But I love them more now than I even did before. They were tough old germans, but now they are so tender and nice. If they would just come to the saving grace of Jesus Christ...

Anyhow, that's neat that you were able to celebrate your grandpa and his marriage like that. Kudos.

Posted 6/11/2006 10:04 AM by Liberty_Belle_76 Xanga True Member - reply

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please UPDATE!!! we miss you!!!!

Posted 6/28/2006 9:32 AM by Katie4Him - reply


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