Saturday, April 19, 2008

  • FOOLS RUSH IN WHERE ANGELES FEAR TO TREAD Part 1 1/2

     

     

     

    Let's Get Some Things Straight Before The Next Installment

     

    12-26-2007-12

    "But God has chosen the foolish things of the world to put to shame the wise.."

    I resemble that remark

     

     

     

    As I fully expected things are getting a little heated behind the scenes.   I'm not a mean SOB because of the stance I take.   Many of you are reading into what I'm saying, and casting your preconceived notions upon what I've written.   And lets get something straight.....THAT'S OKAY.  I have the opportunity to try to communicate better.   I've thought about how to do this, and the only thing I know to do is to reveal my heart on the matter of sexual brokenness.   I should have done this a long time ago, but it just never occurred to me.    So read carefully, so this process remains focused on what is most important.

    Several years ago I was walking through a mall toward a shoe store, when I passed a little family out for a day of shopping.   There was a dad, mom, grandma, son, younger daughter, little daughter.   Pretty usual for a family, until you got the the "little daughter".  You couldn't help but notice the little girl, her head arms and legs were covered in compression bandages.   Compression bandages are often worn by burn victims.   The compression bandage on her head was really a mask.  she looked like a cross between Minny Me and Nacho Libre.  At first I just gawked, like everyone else around them seemed to be doing.  Suddenly I realized how rude I was being.   I felt ashamed, but went about my business. 

    I saw the little family later and decided to strike up a conversation.  We were all sitting in chairs out in one of those sitting areas malls have.  I made some offhand, comical comment, they laughed and the dad had a comical comeback of  his own.   That broke the ice and I had my opening.  I spoke to the little girl who obviously had been burned, badly.   For the first time I could see that on one of her little hands she had no fingers left, just nubs.   Water started filling my bottom eyelids, so I tried to smile and talk over the feelings.   My voice was a little huskier, but my smile was genuine, and thank God none of the water overflowed.   I said to  the little girl, "Hi there!"  She looked me in the eyes, smiled a very crooked, burnt smile back and said "Hi!"  This one wasn't shy at all!.   *God, I thought how am I ever going to get through this without breaking down completely?!*  "What's your name, pretty?!" I asked.   No one had called her pretty for a long time, I'm sure, but she did what every little girl of 4 or 5 does, she got all cute, smiley, and if she could have I'm sure she'd have blushed.   She told me her name, and then I complimented her dress, "That sure is a pretty dress you have on," I gushed.   She said, "Thank You!"   Then she got all shy and moved closer to mommy.   I looked dad in the eye and asked if I could ask him a question.   You could see he was guarded, but I'd just been very kind to his daughter so I figured he'd answer me.  "Sure", he said affably.   I asked very simply, "How did it happen?" 

    It was an accident, plain and simple.  The house caught fire, and at the same time the little girl caught fire as well.   I held eye contact as best I could, but it was so hard.  I said, "That's terrible, I'm sorry."   Mom joined the conversation, "We're just thankful she's alive."   "She was burned over 50% of her body," she finished.   I asked another question, "Did they ever discover how the fire started?"    Dad responded, "yeah, a match caught paper in a trash can on fire, and this one, *indicating the little girl*, tried to put it out."   "Oh, my gosh," I gasped!

    it was tragic story, a tragic accident, no child should ever suffer.   Let me tell you when you are looking at a small child, horribly disfigured by burns, something in you wants to grab the baby up in your arms, and weep and wail uncontrollably.   Children aren't supposed to suffer like that.  IT'S WRONG! AND EVERY FIBER OF YOUR BEING WANTS TO SHOUT AGAINST THE INJUSTICE!!!!   Finally I said, " I don't understand how you two kept your sanity!"   Mom said, "it's been horrible, I wish it had happened to me instead!"   

    Then dad finished the story....It had happened when the little girl was only three.   The little girl had been playing with matches, throwing lit ones into a trash can in the home office.   She had been told time and time again never to play with matches.  They had no idea where she got the box of matches she was playing with, at the time.   Mom had gone to answer the phone in the kitchen, and by the time she got back half the room was engulfed and so was the child.  

    SO WHAT DO YOU THINK?   

    Do you think the little girl got what she deserved?   Do you think as soon as she got well enough her parents should have beat some sense into her??   She knew it was wrong to play with matches, she got burned so that's just plain old justice ain't it?  

    Mom and dad didn't worry about the house burning down, they worried for their child.   The family was devastated to discover the baby had been playing with matches.   That little girl didn't deserve to burn, because she played with matches.   Justice wasn't served.   She could not understand that playing with matches would bring her lifelong pain and misery.   Did the little girl sin?   Yeah, she disobeyed her mom and dad.    But would anyone like to argue that she deserved to be burnt????    

    Folks no one thinks the bad decisions we make will burn us up, but they do.  It's just the way it is.   You play with matches you get burned.   The crime doesn't fit the punishment per se, but that's just the consequences.   It's the same with sin.   You play with sin and it burns you up.   It's not what we thought we were signing up for, but that is just the way it is.   Whether we feel we deserve the consequences of our sin is moot.  The consequences of sin is death.   That's the way it is.   

    With Jesus God gives a message:  "World, I want to get the gas can and matches out of your hands!"    

    "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free"

    Galatians 5:1

    That's all folks, God wants to set us free.   And when I talk about the hard stuff that is the only point.   I want freedom for people who've been taken captive by their own sin.  

    When I'm spitting mad at Christians on the Right it's because all you care about is your burning house.  

    Fundamentalist Fruitcake:  "Look at how the liberals, homosexuals, feminists, and ACLU are destroying America!!   We need to take this county back for God!!!!"   "Vote BUSH...er....VOTE HUCKABEE!....um, well....I guess...at least don't vote Clinton or Obama!"

    So wait... hang on... Let me get this straight... Jesus died on a Roman cross for our American dream "house"???   Are you out of your minds??!!!   Jesus died for the burning people not the house.  He didn't die for America, and certainly not any "Christian American" dream!!!   And let's get one more thing straight....When Jesus returns for the second time it will not be to recreate the United States of America.  

    And you religious people on the Left....While the Right cries about the house burning, neglecting the burning people, what do you do?!  You refill the gas cans and hand out matches!!!  

    Lefty Lunatic:  "You poor gay person!  It's not your fault!  You were born to burn yourself up!!   I understand, and I've figured out a way to make it alright with God.   All you have to do is wear a wedding band....oh, look you've burned your fingers off...well at least we can have cake!!!"    

    What does it take to get through to some of you people???!!!   Why won't you see things with God's eyes???   While hanging on a cross Jesus literally took the weight of sin upon Himself.  "He who knew no sin became sin..."   Jesus understood, for the first time, what we experience when we sin.  And even when Jesus knew us at our most wicked and worthless, He cried out to Father,

    "FATHER FORGIVE THEM FOR THEY DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY DO."     

    I didn't write that post to throw gasoline on the fire!  Taking responsibility for what we THINK AND FEEL is part of what we need to do, so God can forgive and free us.  

    So you people who've been giving me a hard time need to cool your jets.  You aren't attacking me for my agenda, you are attacking from YOUR agenda.   All I want to do is get the gas can and matches out of sinner's hands and into the arms of Christ the healer.

    God is a good daddy and momma....GET WITH THE PROGRAM!

     

    Lonnie    

     

     

     

Comments (44)

  • Pass_the_Aura

    Thanks for telling it like it is, bro.  This is great.

  • EilisAngelos

    I dearly hope that, with God's help, I never become someone who is more worried about the house than the people in it. But things like this serve as a great reminder. Thank you for that.

  • WomanOfLight

    We are on the same wavelength. Way to go. I think you are brave to be talking about this.

  • chinapocahantas

    Wow what a great illustration and touching story.  Thanks for sharing!

  • jigadijig
    That is quite a picture young man!
    Thank you for sharing about the little girl, what an excellent example of the kind of parent God is and the kind of parents (friends) we should be.
  • SephraEclect

    i actually read the whole thing!

    This is the longest post i've read in some time! haha

    Yup, there are consequences for our foolish actions thats for sure.

    Sad about the young girl though.

    Good to know she's still happy and friendsly though <3

    Good post, has me thinking.

  • ManOnAJourney

    BP this is the MOST orthodox Christian illustration and assessment of it I have EVER heard!!  You really need to write a book, or maybe you should be in the ministry!  Seriously, you are right on!  My pastor would agree with every word.  You da man, my long-time friend!  (I say that only because you were one of the first persons I met on here, right after Casey.)  Cool dude!

    -- John

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  • GrundlingGoomba

    THis iso ne of my favorite of your entries! Thanks for sharing it.

  • wondering04

    I am glad you spoke positive words to that little one. It reminds me of the story when the disciples were asking who sinned, and Jesus talked about the tower falling down and killing people, we are on an earth that is controlled by satan and bad stuff happens, Jesus never promised us that bad stuff would never happen once we got saved. But fortunately we have Him there with us. I had a hard time believing that for many years, hating God for His seeming abandonment and lack of concern in my life. Now He is showing me where He was. Just because bad things do happen doesn't mean that God isn't there loving us through them. Sometimes we reap what we sow, other times we are gratefully given a crop failure. But whatever, we walk through it with Him. God gave me many crop failures, but I also reaped some of what I sowed. If you ever want to read my testimony I have a link to it on my blog.

    Heather

  • vangelicmonk

    I just read this blog entry in a coffee shop  It took all I could do to prevent a the tears in my eyes from coming down so people don't think i'm a total nut job crying as I'm sucking down coffee. All I can say is well said.  Coming from someone who was of the "religious right."  I don't disavow everything the religious right has done.  However, it was foolish for us to think that we could legislate morality and personal decisions and assume that holiness would come out of it.  Holiness comes from Christ alone.  Not from a law.

  • Such_Were_You

    @Paul - PAUL!!!   How you doing?   I glad you stopped by as well.  Hope you come browsing again. 

    Blessings,

    Lonnie

  • Drakonskyr

    That's a...interesting hat, there.

  • Such_Were_You

    @Drakonskyr - Okay truth is I wanted to dress in suits and carry a cane.   Someone beat me to the look, and all that was left were moose antlers....there.....happy now?

  • Drakonskyr

    Yes. Yes I am.


    Still, you'd look class with a cane.
  • GreekPhysique

    Lonnie, you are on target as usual. I have to remember the people in the burning house before I worry about the fire spreading to my cottage, and I often forget them. 

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  • EilisAngelos

    RYC: I didn't mean to imply that you were wasting your time. Did I come across that way? I'm sorry if I did. 

  • EilisAngelos

    Crud... I'm going to come across as brainless if I always read things wrong. I thought you said "I don't think I'm wasting my time, but thanks."

    Anyway, I will be praying that you don't get discouraged. I have a friend who struggles with SSA and I send your posts to him. Even though he doesn't comment I know that he's told me that he likes what you have to say. It's very challenging. He wants me to keep sending things as they are written. So... I am.

    I love your writing for myself but, even more, I appreciate the impact it's capable of having on others' lives. It also equips me, as their friend, to be there for them and have a little better idea of what they're going through.

    I'd bet that there are a lot of people who you are reaching and you will have no idea of it until Heaven. Until then, I will do my best to be here for you, supporting you.

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  • come_a_little_bit_closer

    great post.  when we see the burning house, its often easy to forget the people inside.  thanks for the reminder.  i like how you addressed it to people on both the right and left.  it seems like too often we discuss issues and feel the need to pick one side or the other and attack the opposing side.  i think, for me, that might have been the biggest lesson. 
    i hope God continues to bring people like you into that little girl's life so she'll always know how pretty she is.

    and, love the hat.

    ~come_closer

  • HARdLEY_BEARable

    i didnt read all the comments but i truly hope nobody thought the little girl got what she deserved. Not at three years old. Terribly unfortunate that things like that happen.

  • Such_Were_You

    @GreekPhysique - 

    Don't feel bad I forget about them too.  I'm usually too busy yelling at Christians to worry about the burning people that I lose sight of the burning people for my anger with my fellow Christians.   You know it's an easy excuse to use "I didn't help those burning myself, because I was trying to get me fellow Christians to pitch in and help."   Sounds good, but in the end since no one jumped in, no one got saved.   Salvation is after all the point, right?

    Blessings,

    Lonnie

  • Such_Were_You

    @empress8411 - Really you are far too kind, but thanks!

  • Such_Were_You

    PAUL-  Sorry I deleted your comment by mistake.   I thought I deleted the comment of a sick, manipulative, creep, but got yours instead.   Again SORRY.   Paul you are more than welcome to stop by any time!

    Blessings

    Lonnie

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