You're an incurable romantic, loving, sensitive, and willing to make sacrifices for the one you love.
you fall in love quickly & easily.
you are pretty direct & solve the problem right away.
you want to see them a lot.
you tend to stay in love for a long, long time.
The results of the test you just took indicate that you are not a bad fighter, but you still have a lot to learn when it comes to your fighting style.
You seem to try to avoid confrontation at any cost. You should realize that this results in a piling up of unresolved anger and frustration on your part as well as on your partner's part. Your sulking and denial do not accomplish anything, and they hurt your partner because s/he might interpret your avoidance as lack of interest.
A lack of focus is the cause of many overly long, exhausting fights. Do you carry grudges about old conflicts and bring them up time and time again? Deep down, are you concerned about important issues that are not directly related to the argument? Do your best not to bring them up all at once! When you're in the heat of the moment, try not to let your judgment be clouded by old hurts and buried issues - it's certainly not easy when you're seeing red, but it's for the best. Keep focused on the issue at hand, and learn to recognize when enough is enough.
You might be explaining to your partner in excruciating detail what is wrong with him/her and driving his/her defensiveness through the roof with well-meant suggestions about how to fix his/her shortcomings.
When criticizing, paying your partner a compliment or expressing your appreciation for something s/he does will take the heat out of the situation and will enable the other person to accept criticism much more willingly.
You seem to be so concerned about your fragile ego that acknowledging your own errors is out of the question, so you resort to denial and blame-shifting. The problem is rarely one-sided. Take responsibility for your part - and your partner will be more willing to assume his/hers.
You may not care to admit it, but sometimes you might get so frustrated that you start fighting dirty, relentlessly going after the Achilles heel with the sole purpose to harm. Maybe it's just revenge for your partner's ignorance; maybe you are simply trying whatever you can to provoke at least some reaction. Or maybe you are so focused on your own problems, wounds, and needs that you completely detach yourself and stop seeing your partner as a human with feelings.
You seem to lose your cool during an argument. While it is normal to get a little bit worked up, it is not a good idea to let it spin out of control and turn into a shouting match, where no one listens anymore. When you get too furious, or when the argument gets out of control, take a break. It should be at least 20 minutes. Set a specific time, not too far away, for continuation.
You withdraw from the argument prematurely, thus postponing the resolution of the problem at hand. Needless to say, you leave the fight unsatisfied and resentful, and very likely, so does your partner (especially if s/he realizes that you withdraw just to get her/him off your back).
You might have very good reasons for using inefficient fighting tactics. Maybe you didn't have such a good example in your original family. Maybe you have been hurt in the past. Or maybe your present partner fights inadequately. Insight into the origins of your fighting style might help, but by itself will not solve the problem. You need to make an effort - a lot of thinking, reading, some more introspection, and finally, learning how to incorporate the newly acquired knowledge into your everyday behavior. Obviously, it would be great if your partner joined you in this quest for a better relationship, but if s/he resists, you can start by yourself. If you start arguing differently (with clear ideas about what you want, a solid stance and fair tactics), your partner will have no choice but to adjust, because the vicious circle will have already been broken by you. Below, you will find a concise guide to constructive arguing and to recommended books on this topic.
My sister's friend, Laura, has a wart on her knee and one on her big toe ((omg gross)) i kno its not her fault but... we had to say SOMETHING! lol. so she'd go under and me and Manda would be like RRrriiiBBiiiTTtt. or wed talk to her and like in the middle of a sentence say wart. She heard us once and tried to dunk us but accidently like her hand slipped and she went down our legs (eww) and i was like yea i kno you like my sexy leggs... she got PISSED. but omg it was sooo funny. and it was like 8:00 and she was posed to go to the mall at 6 so she got mad ant my sister and its like Laura sweetie it closes at 9, by the time you get there it'll be closed. and then manda said it closes at 8. we had a big time tellin Laura it was closed. She went. we were like go another day. Sheez. and last night wen we watched a movie she kept talking i mean dang... SHUT UP! lol. JS and SH were over and she kept being like do you kno my sisters? do you kno me? she muxt think her sisters kno EVERYONE. they're in 7th grade. She asks ALL my friends that. i was like Shut-Up and go away. i said it nice tho. Then we were playing that game the movie one where ppl have to guess the movie and you race to see who wins and me and Manda picked Gothika and we said it started with a G. she goes.... Gorgeous ur not ur soo ugly. Amanda goes... Look in a mirror. lol