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Original: 1/13/2006 2:37 PM
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Friday, January 13, 2006

 

A lot of people claim that money cannot buy happiness since material things often provide mere "short-term happiness." However, this sort of thinking considers money at a very superficial level. It would be misleading to conclude that money can't buy happiness.

Money offers the freedom of choice. When you have money, you can either choose to buy something, or you can choose not to, regardless of the duration of happiness that item would bring. Lack of money does not give one that freedom; one simply cannot afford that item, whether he would like to purchase it or not. The matter has been decided for him by default.

How many times have you gone to the store, seen a really cool gadget (take the iPod Nano, for example), and said to yourself, I really want that thing, but it's got a price tag of $400. I don't think I can afford it.

Note that this is quite different from the scenario in which you do have the money to buy the iPod, but choose not to. If you think the iPod will not make you happy, well, then don't buy it, not because you cannot afford it but because you don't want to.

To be more extreme, if I were rich, I could still beg for money on the streets with other panhandlers if I want to. But a genuine panhandler does not have the option of travelling twice every year and driving a fancy car; he must panhandle even if it's against his wish.

The importance of money goes beyond merely what you can buy with it. Of course, money is by no means omnipotent. It cannot buy real friends or cure AIDS. However, being rich goes a long way towards eliminating worries that money can solve, and lets you focus your attention on matters outside the money domain. There's a Chinese saying: "you may not be able to accomplish all ten thousand things with money, but without it you wouldn't be able to do anything."

Money gives you the freedom to choose what you want to do and what you don't want to do, and this freedom is one of the main contributors to long-term happiness. In this way, money can buy happiness.

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1.  Money ALONE can not cure aids.  It is one of the many links in a greater system that will probably cure aids.

2.  Is it possible that excessive money leads to excessive choices?  Excessive choices leads to confusion?  Confusion leads to diminishing happiness?

3.  If money can not buy real friends, then we need to redefine a "friend".

4.  Money is undervalued by most North Americans.

Posted 1/14/2006 7:09 PM by johnlai2004 - reply

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As of now, AIDS still has no cure. The point is that there are certain things that one cannot do even without pecuniary restraint.

Perhaps having excessive choices is a luxury rather than a burden.

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Just because there's no cure now, doesn't mean there won't be any. And if there is a cure, i'm sure money will play a big role in finding it.

i dont know, i always get frustrated when i have to choose where to eat...and it gets even worse when soemone gives me a menu and I have to choose what to eat. You pick where to eat next, my brain hurts from too much thinking.
Posted 1/15/2006 12:37 AM by johnlai2004 - reply

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If you don't have any money, you won't even get to choose what to eat in a restaurant.

Posted 1/15/2006 10:53 AM by chanctw - reply

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hmmm.....you're paying next time!
Posted 1/16/2006 12:08 AM by johnlai2004 - reply

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I have proposal. You can pay me $300 / hr, and I'll choose your food for you.

Problem solved. See? Money can buy happiness.

Posted 1/16/2006 1:14 AM by chanctw - reply

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hahaha, good conversation...
my response to this post is in the comments of the post for Jan9
Posted 1/16/2006 8:45 AM by GrobSMG - reply

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do you take IOUs? That's the currency I'm working with these days?

If not, what's the equivalent of $300/hr in terms of gratitude/hour? I'll pay you with gratitiude!
Posted 1/16/2006 9:43 AM by johnlai2004 - reply

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Just to prove my point, I will not accept anything other than cold hard cash... and that goes for gratitude as well!
Posted 1/16/2006 11:24 AM by chanctw - reply

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The terms of our friendship need to be re-visited for me to still consider you a friend!!!!
Posted 1/16/2006 3:22 PM by johnlai2004 - reply

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ok ok... there's no need to get mad over this.

Fine, I'll accept gold as well as paper currency. An ounce would do.

Posted 1/16/2006 10:01 PM by chanctw - reply

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Williams, you're a smart man...I envy you
Posted 1/17/2006 12:35 PM by johnlai2004 - reply

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Shut up

Posted 1/17/2006 9:32 PM by chanctw - reply

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There is a saying by Sophie Tucker, "I have been rich, and I have been poor. Believe me honey, rich is better." Maybe some people will say rich does not bring happiness, but neither does poverty.
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Yes I have heard that phrase too
Posted 3/7/2006 4:38 PM by chanctw - reply


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