Should Gay and Lesbian couples be allowed to adopt?

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Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Check out this link on SapphirerRains site on the topic:

http://www.xanga.com/Sapphire_Rain/665247077/how-do-you-feel-about-adoption-of-children-by-same-sex-couples.html?nextdate=1442789059&direction=p#viewcomments

My Comments on sapphirerains site: I believe in the Holy Bible and that it is the Holy, infallible, written word of God, therefore I believe that Homosexuality and Lesbianism, or Bisexuality is an Abomination because it says so. Romans chapter 1 is a good example of this. I do not believe that Gay and Lesbian couples should be allowed to marry, to adopt, or any of the other rights given to the God instituted marriages talked about in Genesis chapters one and two of One man and One Woman. The Bible talks a lot about how we (Christians) are to live and has some good rules and guidelines that help all of humanity Saved or Unsaved. I am a Christian and I really don't have anything against those who are not, but I think that a Gay or Lesbian couple adopting a child is going to cause confusion in that young childs life and cause them to grow up in an unnatural way. Who knows the scope of the consequences of that?

Here’s the exchange about gay adoption from The New York Times interview with John McCain on the subject and I tend to agree with him.:

Q: President Bush believes that gay couples should not be permitted to adopt children. Do you agree with that?

Mr. McCain: I think that we’ve proven that both parents are important in the success of a family so, no I don’t believe in gay adoption.

Q: Even if the alternative is the kid staying in an orphanage, or not having parents.

Mr. McCain: I encourage adoption and I encourage the opportunities for people to adopt children I encourage the process being less complicated so they can adopt as quickly as possible. And Cindy and I are proud of being adoptive parents.

Q: But your concern would be that the couple should a traditional couple

Mr. McCain: Yes.

Conservative Christians are the whole reason that Bush got elected. So I think that that tells me there are more people that think like I do than you guys let on. That is why McCain will get elected. Because people still vote based on moral conviction, on what is right and what is wrong according to the Bible.

Romans 1:24-32 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonor their own bodies between themselves: Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

What do you think, should gay and lesbian couples be allowed to adopt?

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I think the best environment for a child to grow up is with a loving mother and father.

Posted 7/29/2008 9:40 PM by Kristenmomof3

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What she said, but I do feel without compromise we can still love the sinner , not the sin. My heart cries out for the WHOLE situation gay couples put themselves in to. They let an un-natural, unchecked desires burn until it feels natural, thus in the process fall in love. In this their natural desires for family fight against the un-natural, the in-abilitiy to bare children naturally. The whole thing is just sad & I think the people that think they should have full rights as a natural couple, feel that way bc they see their love & wants for a good life that include a family. All so utterly sad... my heart goes out to them still, though I do not think that environment is suitable for raising children nor in God's will.

Posted 7/29/2008 10:01 PM by Made2sing4Jesus - reply

@Made2sing4Jesus - nice word! that is not the way we should raise our children. I pray that God would bring them to repentance.

Posted 7/29/2008 11:14 PM by

Mighty_Men_of_Valor

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Agreed. And I'm sure we've all read the blogpost about the story regarding the social worker and the child and so on and so forth. But in the end, as harsh as our views may seem, Made2sing4Jesus has pretty much summed it. They've indoctrinicated society and our children into believing that this "love" they have for someone of the same sex is natural. It isn't. Clearly, it isn't. It cannot be. The Lord had not created it as such. Especially not if you must do so much just in order to reproduce, it cannot be natural! And I truly wish more people would come to this understanding, to me it's as simple as logic: If the puzzles don't fit, obviously they weren't meant to. Forcing them to isn't making it natural, there's still so much missing from the pieces, you won't see the whole picture.

Thanks for posting this and also for posting the bit about McCain. I've been iffy on whether I should vote or not, considering my pick wasn't the candidate for the GOP. It's always nice ot hear something from about current nominees.

Posted 7/29/2008 11:30 PM by ultravioletskies08 - reply

There is no evidence to show that children raised by LGBT parents are any more negatively affected than children raised by heterosexual parents. If LGBT couples want to adopt, let them.

Posted 7/30/2008 12:33 AM by QuantumStorm - reply

I believe that children should grow up with their parents- a mother and a father. I pray for the gay and lesbian couples to be enlightened. May they repent to God and change their ways. God bless!

Posted 7/30/2008 8:24 AM by sky_gel - reply

@QuantumStorm - :wha: How about if the Child was a born again Christian before it was placed with the Same Sex couple, They are obviously not Born Again Christians because they are living the lifestyle of sin described above (Romans 1).

Anyway you look at it, Gay, Lesbian, or Bisexual relationships are an abomination to God.

Children growing up need a good role model, parents that love each other naturally the way that God intended in Genesis 1&2.

Posted 7/30/2008 5:57 PM by derekwilson24

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I love how people base their whole view of gay adoption on gay people, and not children. You claim it would cause a child confusion. How many children have you come across, raised, or witnessed that have not been confused at one point in their childhood? How about the child living with a single mother, would he/she not be confused about where their father is? More importantly, how many children do you know that were raised by an LGBT couple? I would venture to guess little to none...because the small fact exists that it isn't illegal.

Using the confusion of children (unproven and with little bearing) is merely something for you to hide behind. To use to justify your willingness to not let loving, capable would-be parents help in providing a child the right to a loving home. This isn't about gay rights. It's about children's rights. So when you come up with a viable study that shows me that somehow children raised by LGBT couples are more confused than children raised in broken, single-parent, or traditional heterosexual homes give me a ring. Until then, your "point" means nothing.

I, personally, was raised by two loving heterosexual parents. And gasp* I turned out gay! And a lot of the time...I was confused about my sexuality, about religion, about any thing under the sun, because that's when you learn, your childhood. Learning how the world works is confusing. For me, one of the hardest things that I've tried to learn is how so many people justify their bigotry using the Bible. I still can't grasp it.

Maybe you could help?

Posted 7/30/2008 7:02 PM by UberGoobah - reply

No. Homosexuals being allowed to adopt is one more weapon in how the homosexual comunity and their agenda are destroying the fabric of the US of A by redefinition of the family....

Posted 7/30/2008 7:13 PM by JandJinJapan

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@UberGoobah - Yes, its not illegal but there are several bills trying to ban Gays and Lesbians from adopting.

On Gay adoption being harmful to children:

<TABLE cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width="100%" border=0> <TBODY> <TR> <TD>

April 12, 2002, 9:55 a.m.
Is Gay Adoption Harmful?
Moving behind the gay-adoption headlinesBennett.

<TR> <TD>

NRO’s Kathryn Jean Lopez interviews Robert Lerner, a social-science researcher and co-author of the book No Basis: What the Studies Don't Tell Us About Same Sex Parenting, a study commissioned by the Marriage Law Project.

"Lopez: Is same-sex parenting harmful to kids?

Lerner: In my opinion there is as yet no definitive answer to this question, even apart from the question of what is meant by "harm." For example, many would say that if children raised in these families were more likely to grow up gay or lesbian, that this in itself would be harmful. Others might not agree, but I would be surprised if most Americans would be neutral at the prospect of their own children becoming gay or lesbian.

There is some evidence that growing up with homosexual parents increases the likelihood of sexual promiscuity, experimentation, and homosexual sexual experience. If sexual preference is at least in part learned, this is to be expected. There is also a large literature indicating that gender nonconformity growing up leads to an increased likelihood of developing a homosexual orientation as an adult. I would speculate that same-sex adoption would likely lead to a greater experimentation with gender nonconformity and a greater likelihood of producing gays and lesbian adults than would heterosexual adoption.

Next, there is the evidence on the relative instability of same-sex relationships with its evident effects on the stability of children's relationships.

Finally, there is evidence that homosexuality, male or female, is associated with adjustment problem such as depression, anxiety disorders, alcohol and drug abuse, and attempts at suicide and, of course, there is the risk for gay men of venereal disease including but not limited to AIDS.

It is not too large a stretch to conclude at least tentatively that high degrees of: family instability, sexual-orientation confusion, parental emotional problems including higher rates of mental illness, higher risk of disease from high rates of sexual promiscuity, may make gays and lesbians less fit as parents than heterosexuals, other things being equal. " End of qoute.

I personally dont believe someone as you put it "Turns out Gay." I believe that it is a willful and conscious decision, to go against nature and do that which God said :nono: is SIN. It doesnt mean that I have anything against you or anyone else, and I wouldnt treat you any different. As a matter of fact I have known people brought up by GL couples and I got along with them just fine.You see as a Christian I am in a war, to walk upright and righteous before a Holy God that loves all of us. That is why he gave us the Bible, to keep us from sinning. Sin leads to Death and God wants us to live forever. All I am doing is spreading the word.

:yes: Maybe I could if you were willing.

Posted 7/30/2008 8:27 PM by derekwilson24

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@UberGoobah - I also agree that it should be all about the children.

Posted 7/30/2008 8:31 PM by derekwilson24

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Great minds think alike! Here is another blog on the same topic.

http://www.xanga.com/JandJinJapan/668320769/a-response-to-sapphirerain--how-do-you-feel-about-adoption-by-same-sex-couples.html?nextdate=last&leftcmt=1

Posted 7/30/2008 8:41 PM by derekwilson24

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uh-huh

@UberGoobah - I wonder if this is because you do not believe the Bible should be believed, whether we agree with Him or not. If you believe the Bible, then it does not matter what you feel; it matters what you do with faith in God. We have an option to rebel, but we cannot call it obedience. As Derek points out: it IS about what is best for the child.

Posted 7/30/2008 8:51 PM by pb49r - reply

@pb49r - For some reason your comment was invisible until I highlighted it.

Posted 7/30/2008 8:55 PM by derekwilson24

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Posted 7/30/2008 10:12 PM by jesusrapture - reply

"Be fruitful and multiply" was God's first command. :wink:

Posted 7/30/2008 10:16 PM by Chandasong - reply

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Posted 7/30/2008 10:25 PM by derekwilson24

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@pb49r -

It is what he feels is best for a child based on his view of the Bible. Is it not? If every Christian interpreted the Bible in the same manner, I doubt there would be nearly as many denominations as there are. I'm an abomination, not because he knows me, or because he has any bearing to say it, but because I love a man. That's a book that preaches some serious love right there. And uh, we don't live in a theocracy. The Bible should have little or nothing to do with this conversation.

@derekwilson24 -

How did I learn to be a homosexual? With my heterosexual parents popping out nine children, living in the deep south where I know everyone would hate me if I even admit I thought about it? With the heterosexual institution of marriage that fails as often as it succeeds, there isn't much room to be talking about instability either.

I don't believe I turned out gay either. I was just smart enough and ready, through all my confusion, to admit it. I chose to be gay the exact same day you chose to be straight. That was ...when? Oh, right, probably never. I think you'll find very few people willingly sign up for the intolerance that comes along with openly loving someone of the same sex.

@JandJinJapan -

Lol. The Gay Agenda? That's so...1998. But if equality is on that particular agenda, sign me up.

Posted 7/30/2008 10:43 PM by UberGoobah - reply

@UberGoobah - The hmosexual community and their agenda are a lot like the devil and his plans - neither wants people to think they are dangerous, until its too late.

Posted 7/30/2008 11:20 PM by JandJinJapan

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@JandJinJapan -

Equality is dangerous to you? If you think the homosexual agenda is the most threatening thing in this world, you seriously need to open your eyes and take a look around.

Posted 7/30/2008 11:35 PM by UberGoobah - reply

Wow, Derek... my heart is always crushed with tension on this subject. There was an Episode of "30 Days" on the FX Network that was about this very subject. I do not agree that homosexuality is right by any means; however, I have a terribly hard time to say that children would be better off staying in Foster homes than being raised by a gay couple. My only problem would be if the child was made to think of it as completely normal.. like if the child grew up and the parents would not listen to the child if the child disagreed with the lifestyle.

Does any of this make sense? I struggle not with the morality of homosexuality but with the morality of leaving children in horrible situations of Foster homes/care. If they have a chance at something better then maybe God can use those people to care for this child unlike a foster home ever would...

Man, I just dont know.. this issue pains me. I suppose, I would feel much more comfortable if Christians would have one table aginst this bill and everyone who signed agianst homosexuals adopting were required to put theer own name down on another list for adoptions. I think that would truly show the love of Christ and make a point, rather than just saying homosexuals cannot - it would show that we walk our talk, we are willing to sacrifice for our beliefs. That we do not just react against immorality but are acting out our own morality, trying to share love with others.

Am i alone in this? Does anyone feel any tension? I have trouble "throwing stones" at either side... almost as if Jesus is not only telling the homosexuals not to sin anymore - but telling passive Christians to sin no more, when they are active in word but not in deed.

Obedience, Servant-hood, and Sacrfice
.. alongside faith, hope, and love.

Great blog Derek
~ Daniel

Posted 7/30/2008 11:58 PM by Doubledb - reply

@derekwilson24 - //How about if the Child was a born again Christian before it was placed with the Same Sex couple, They are obviously not Born Again Christians because they are living the lifestyle of sin described above (Romans 1). //

What about it? If they aren't BAC's, how would that affect the salvation of the child, which is determined by God's grace and not the family of the child?

//Children growing up need a good role model, parents that love each other naturally the way that God intended in Genesis 1&2. //

There is no evidence to support that homosexual parents are any less capable role models than heterosexual parents. If you have evidence, please provide it.

Posted 7/31/2008 3:19 AM by QuantumStorm - reply

I agree with Made2sing4Jesus 's reply. Just on a note of foster homes.....unless they are different to here in the UK. My hubby and I were hoping to foster, but felt God closing the doors when the council had a problem with us attending church and wanted us to stay at home if the child didn't want to go to church!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 7/31/2008 7:25 AM by Neeka1

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@QuantumStorm - I guess you do not believe the Bible, No?