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jessica

That is sad Heather, that someone would think they have to do that. Some people are never satisfied with themselves, unfortunately.

Hope you liked your Pesto Cavatappi !I spit in it ,sike I did nothing of the sort. haha.

Talk to you later!

<3 Kyria

A little mint chocolate chip ice cream never hurt anybody (except me - I can't eat milk anymore - sigh), but thinking that your body fat index has anything to do with your value as a human being does hurt.  So does contempt, which often goes along with that thought.  It makes some sense to strive for physical perfection when you're in that competitive phase of trying to attract a prime mate, but even then, that mindset can lead to bad decisions.  And if, as you mature, you can't get rid of the delusion that physical perfection equals worth, then you really are carrying around a lot of excess "emotional weight" that will constantly bog you down. 

And, while I have the soapbox: speaking as a middle-aged guy who has been in relationships with all kinds of women, I have found that beautiful women are often so invested in appearance-as-value that they have a hard time opening up to people.  They find it difficult to trust a mate, either because they expect them to be susceptible to someone else's beauty, or because they choose mates who only care about beauty, not the heart inside.  The most neurotic beauties find it difficult to trust anybody, which means they are close to no one.  One day I realized I am actually suspicious of beautiful people and their motives, at least until I have had a chance to know them.  I expect them to think they are somehow better than other people, or that they are using their looks to get what they want, and I have no use for being manipulated.  I know what it's like to have someone make you feel like you're not good enough because of your looks or, more typical for men, how much money or machismo you've got.  And I made a lot of bad choices trying to convince them I was good enough for them--what a waste of my life that was!  So when someone tries to make you think you're not good enough, tell them to fuck off if you have to--just don't buy into their bullshit.

--Love, Will

"It's like I'm using a spoon to empty the ocean."  That's a great quote~!  I get that feeling all the time!