Friday, May 23, 2008

• cry babies and pupee dolls

  Tonight, I read a blog written by a friend of mine. He wrote how we give children a false sense of success. He believes (and I know this because I have heard him talk on the subject, not just write about it) that to tell a child he or she can do and be whatever he or she wants to is rediculous and wrong. He used an analogy of a young boy who wants to be "the next Lebron." This boy is of course 5'1" and runs really slow. How dare we tell him he can be whatever he wants to be, the American Dream and all of that mess. By our giving him this sort of encouragement, we are giving him a false sense of success; a sense that success is measured in fame and money. My friend assures us he is not pessimistic, but rather realistic. 
  I disagree with this friend of mine and in fact, it makes me a little angry. While it is true success should not be measured by fame or money, I don't believe this is the principal of our, so called, "American Dream" nor is it wrong to tell this boy he can be what he wants. The American Dream is about working hard and bettering his circumstances by beating the things which might have held him back. But I don't believe we are even talking about the american dream here.
  All my life I have wanted, and still want, to do big, great things. So maybe I am biased, looking from a "dreamer's" perspective(or maybe I'm alittle too hyped for the underdog after just watching Rocky Balboa). I believe the kind of success our children are looking for, is the success that comes from making huge goals(or dreams) and working hard to persevere and reach what they truly desire to do or be.

   

  I am really bored. I am house sitting since yesterday and until tomorrow. I did six hours straight of office work today.  Then I made dinner for myself which consisted of a sliced roast beef and cheese sandwich washed down with apple juice and chased with doritos. I've all three dogs, the cat, and six horses. I sat and stared at the television for a about three hours watching Rocky Balboa in Bluray and had planned on watching Transformers after this. But now, the thought of sitting and staring at the TV for another three hours sounds like murder. So, I thought I might conquer the less brain melting task of reading the memiors of The Rocket Boys, by Homer Hickam.

  Currently Reading Rocket Boys: a True Story By Homer H. Hickam see related

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