Taken from the website for The National Center for Victims of Crime:
Cyberstalking can be defined as threatening behavior or unwanted
advances directed at another using the Internet and other forms of
online and computer communications. Cyberstalkers target their victims through chat rooms, message
boards, discussion forums, and e-mail. Cyberstalking takes many forms
such as: threatening or obscene e-mail; spamming (in which a stalker
sends a victim a multitude of junk e-mail); live chat harassment or
flaming (online verbal abuse); leaving improper messages on message
boards or in guest books; sending electronic viruses; sending
unsolicited e-mail; tracing another person's computer and Internet
activity, and electronic identity theft.
Experts suggest that in cases where the offender is
known, victims should send the stalker a clear written warning. Specifically,
victims should communicate that the contact is unwanted, and ask the
perpetrator to cease sending communications of any kind. Victims should do
this only once. Then, no matter the response, victims should under no
circumstances ever communicate with the stalker again. Victims should save
copies of this communication in both electronic and hard copy form.
If the harassment continues, the victim may wish to
file a complaint with the stalker's Internet service provider, as well as with
their own service provider. Many Internet service providers offer tools that
filter or block communications from specific individuals.
As soon as individuals suspect they are victims of
online harassment or cyberstalking, they should start collecting all evidence
and document all contact made by the stalker. Save all e-mail, postings, or
other communications in both electronic and hard-copy form. If possible, save
all of the header information from e-mails and newsgroup postings. Record the
dates and times of any contact with the stalker.
Victims may also want to start a log of each
communication explaining the situation in more detail. Victims may want to
document how the harassment is affecting their lives and what steps they have
taken to stop the harassment.
Victims may want to file a report with local law
enforcement or contact their local prosecutor's office to see what charges, if
any, can be pursued. Victims should save copies of police reports and record
all contact with law enforcement officials and the prosecutor's office.
Comments (4)
Well said. :)
Hm. So what you're saying is, a guy who likes me but won't catch the hint, and keeps sending me strange notes and writing me poems is "cyberstalking" me. LOL. Anyhow, thanks for the heads up.
I'll keep that in mind.
Saweet.