may i ask why there is such a rush for you to get married? your life seems so hectic that i'm surprised you're even thinking about it so soon. i dont want to get married until i'm ready... i want to enjoy my wedding(year)! that weekend is just convienent for my peeps. i'm thinking of having a chill weekend wedding... like i'm inviting everyone to rehearsal dinner, the wedding, and a sunday brunch. and it's an excuse to pull out the big guns: FIREWORKS (ahahaahahahahha. i know, we know no limits)

my family is anxious for the wedding.. and by then, i'll be "engaged" for three years and finished with school (hopefully). that's your family's reunion and i'm just planning it like i've always been. my grandmother is pretty old now (93) and brendan's mom is getting worst by the year, so that's why i've been thinking about it even more than usual. it's going to be sad since probably a lot of people cant make it to both weddings. i'm ok with that, since i'll be having it in san jose and all of my family will be able to make it.

well, i always say, c'est la vie.. i take it day by day. whatever happens, happens. i hope it'll all work out, since we'll be both stressed with wedding planning and school. well, maybe not school for me. haha. i know, it's weird between my B and me right now, but i still hang out with him regularly and i love him desperately [dont tell him that :D]. i'm just weird and i like having drama. :D :D :D we should have a "cousins" retreat one day. i usually do that with my mom's side but it'll be cool to get a cousin's get together with all of us. hopefully before one of us pops out a kid.
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and you are NOT fat. send a pic of me to your parents. i'm not fat, but i'm bigger, in asian terms=chubby. you should check out my gut. three rolls! all the binge drinking and late night eating. :D :D :D