One of the most famous phrases goes like this..What is love? Is there really such a thing? is, is love selfish, a need fulfilled or someone to fulfill it with.....and so on.What I can say about this very big question or let's just say, pretending to be a big question is that there is no such thing as love or true love or unconditional love there is a somewhere in the open space called as love but there is no absolute love, the love that most thought they can have. Love will always turn it's back on you when you most don't expect it to. This is when people start to get frustrated about the issue of them holding it in their hands.

So for my own opinion, when people say and ask me what is love? I tell them that love is just some feeling with which we always put a meaning behind when the truth is that there is nothing more than what's there is which is a feeling that we give different interpretation to. If I am to sum up what is love, I would simply say that love is a feeling. The very same reason why up to now no one can decipher the depth of or the shallowness of because it is just a feeling like tasting bitter fruit which is bitter.

Love may be deep and it may be shallow but when we are isolated of anything that makes us feel love, we usually loose it even if we really don't have it. What's left of us is the thought of it the very memory of that feeling about what is love once in our lifetime. We don't have it, we even don't control it as what other claim. Love is something that we cannot have, hold and share. We feel it but we don't have it and we share it but we don't give it because it is not ours to give. We can only hold on to it but we will never have it so don't pretend you give love. Love is not something it is somewhere in a place nobody knows it will be and even if love is everywhere, we don't see it with our eyes open instead with a welcoming mind. Take note, not with the eyes open but with the mind open and absolutely not with our heart.

Our heart is not the instrument that makes up or contains love and of what love is but instead the heart is what is responsible for deceiving us that we have it in us and that love is for us to give. Love is the longest debate in human history. People are always pretending to find it or how it is but the sad truth is it will never be deciphered because it does not exist. It is given its name because it does not absolutely co-exist but because we feel it. People will never find out what it is all about because up to now, nobody can claim that they saw it or have it...This is the simple reason why it stayed all these years.

Remember the saying that goes in a war that the best weapon to use against an enemy is the element of surprise. Love to me can be more compared to an element of surprise because it is the best weapon as what fairytales say and what the movies always ends up with. "Love conquers all", It conquers all because it wins wars as the best weapon is the element of surprise - LOVE. Love comes the least you expect it and that's why it lingers in us but not inside us. We live in it by hope of somehow feeling it or having it or embracing it because we know....WE ALWAYS KNOW that what's best with invisible things is having what cannot or is impossible to be had.
 

It's been years since I had the inkling urge to get my house a well designed porch with an amazing porch blinds made of bamboo, our local reed but the other day, that porch that I have been dreaming just came to life. The original design was made by a friend architect that he got from Italy where he used to work for 6 long years. He gave the design to me for free so I took advantage of it and saw the opportunity to have my dreams come true.

It is true that when you dream of things and have a vision over it that you will get it some time that only you know about, chances are, you will get it done and have what you aimed for. This is what it has been for me since I stated to understand the secrets in life. That there is nothing in this world that you can ever desire or want that you cannot have when have the focus over it. Just the other day, I had it proven and this is some achievement for ma that I want to thank the people who made it possible including my friend architect.

I've always wanted to have a beautiful porch so badly because a tiring work at home will always need an equivalent rest place where you can ease out the pressure a little bit and get the chance to relax for a while away from work although always near because I work at home in front of my PC now. I can only imagine that I resigned from the regular work in the amusement only to seek more greener pasture and I didn't fail myself and my family only to find out the there is indeed more than what I expected working from home where I get to kiss my family everyday on time before dinner is served or before lunch time

The patio is a long time dream and I want to have some porch blinds installed the next weekend so I am looking forward to see some interesting design for my dream porch blinds. It is my best place of rest so I want it to be the best in terms of look and aura and the most relaxing of all porches that me and my visitors will ever see.

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