Wednesday, March 16, 2005

  • Alex had her 6th grade concert last night. I surprised her with a new skirt and a blue shirt to go with it. She plays the clarinet, as do about 85 others in the band. Each section stood up to play during one song, and there were about four times as many clarinets than any other instrument.

    I was very annoyed at the concert. Everything was annoying me and I'm not usually like that. But there were kids who were old enough to know better running up and down the bleachers, people next to me talking, people who couldn't find seats that decided to pull up their chairs right behind the band. When one of the band kids got up to announce a song, this one lady would stand up and move closer to the kid so she could hear. It was strange. There's no reason this should have annoyed me, but it did. By the end of it, I was just a big ball of pissed off.

    I like those band things, even though they go on too long sometimes. It's nothing short of amazing how much those kids learn. This concert was for the entire sixth grade, so choir and orchestra were also represented. The band was the best, and that's all I'm gonna say about that.

    Anne Lamott is doing a reading at Powell's tomorrow night and I can't decide if I want to go. I do, sort of, but maybe not enough to actually drive there and try to find parking, sit in a hot room and listen to her, etc. But maybe...her new book sounds like something I should read. madmomwriter, wanna go? I don't really want to, but I could be convinced.

    Sometime I'll have to tell you all about the night I met Anne Lamott, Grace Paley, and Ursula K. LeGuin. Maybe I've already told you.

    I'm trying to make some decisions about taking classes. I was thinking about taking screenwriting vie the Internet from our local community college. It costs $80 or something like that. Then, there's a tennis class I want to take that also costs $80. And I really only have one $80 to spend. I could wait and do screenwriting next time (they have a new one starting every month) or I could wait and do tennis the next time (they also have a new one starting every month). I could sign up for a year at Writer's Village University and take unlimited classes for a year for $100 or something like that, but I don't know how good those classes are, and they don't offer screenwriting, which is what I specifically want to take. I think I'm going to go for the tennis, because I have another project ahead of the screenplay that I would like to finish, and I'm too distractible as it is.

    I need to become one of those people who get up at 4 a.m. to write. Just until this project is done. And maybe the screenplay.

    My goal for next Friday the 25th is to have completed the essays I'm working on and sent them off. They are all in various stages of completion, and I'm not sure if they'll all pan out, but I want to get them off my list. And I need to finish the next dog article by Friday also.

    Tonight we're having grilled chicken with macaroni and cheese and green beans. But I might make rolls or something instead of mac & cheese. But mac & cheese sounds really good.

    My wireless network went down yesterday for the first time. I'm not really a networking person, but I did manage to set this up and get my laptop and my TiVo talking to it (and each other). I  was afraid it would take me days to solve the problem, but it only took about an hour. I did all the rebooting & etc. and then eventually replaced a cable I suspected might be the problem, and that did the trick.

    Oh, it rained today. In Portland. Can you imagine? I'm a little sad because this is the first day of rain since they started building the house. They have all three floors framed now...things are coming together in a hurry. I'll try to take a pic of it with my camera phone on the way home tonight, but I think it's too dark out now.

    And now, I have the OK to leave for the day...I was sitting around here writing this while waiting for the OK to leave.

    Currently Reading
    Plan B: Further Thoughts on Faith
    By Anne Lamott
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Comments (17)

  • ydurp
    Thank you so much for mentioning Anne Lamott being at Powell's.  I am a huge fan and will be there at 7 to get a good seat.  I would send you a picture so you could say hello but my computer is down and I am at the library with 10 minutes left.  I was going to post but instead started reading everyone.  Good thing.  I wonder if Lionne is going?  Do you read her?  I'll go check in with her. 
  • BettyC
    I like band concerts too.
  • sportsgoddess
    i'm glad somebody likes those band concerts.  i was in band forever when i was in school, and my mom and grandparents sat through every single concert.  i couldn't stand them when i was in them.  i liked rehearsals much better (still do).  i thought maybe my attitude would change when i was the parent.  nope.  i don't usually put up with my kids quitting things but when they both wanted to give up their instruments, i was more than willing to say no problem.  either you love it or you don't, and they didn't.  i wasn't going to complain about not going to any more band concerts.
  • thenarrator
    I always loved the concerts. Now my kid is in college and the concerts are high-end affairs of course but in some strange way I miss the tension of that learning process (college, where every kid in the orchestra was first chair in high school is, obviously, different) But begahior? It borders on appalling. Schools need to far more aggressively teach decorum in those situations, they just do...
  • FashionPyrate
    You met Ursula LeGuin??????  I am hugely jealous!
  • gothamgal
    I didn't think the classes offered Writer's Village were that great. I did take the free one and then talked to a few others I met whom had taken other classes. It's basically a peer edit site and I do not think they offer screenwriting. Maybe look on the net or xanga for a class (or even a group) about that. I've wanted to check it out at some point in the future.
  • ordinarybutloud
    I need to be one of those 4 a.m. people too! And it wouldn't hurt me to take a class now and then. Eh, no money, no time.

    It's funny when you unexpectedly become a big ball of pissed off for no clear reason. Not funny ha-ha. I've experienced this quite a bit lately.
  • skanickadee
    I hate band concerts! OMG, how could I say that? Well, it's not the kids or the music I hate - it's the other parents. They won't shut up! They won't keep their little ones home. They let these little ones run around. The parents get up and stand in front of you to video tape their child. When their kid is done they get up and leave. These are educated people, they are doctors and lawyers and mostly white collar professionals. It was so bad that the school had to use the last page of the program to explain how to act during a musical performance.

    But I love to listen to the kids. During jr high band the music director was awesome and he really helped the kids achieve their potential. Now if only the parents would learn some manners!
  • CndFrnd

    Gator's band concert was a fiasco!  Thank goodness he's decided not to take band again next year!

    And yeah, it wasn't the kids, it was the parents.  Lordy! 

  • phoenixdreams
    What a good mom, surprising your daughter with a new outfit.  That is a really sweet thought.
  • balticblond
    I'm really glad to see you take time to do stuff like that for Alex even with the obstacles attempting to derail you from enjoying it. If we ever missed any of Alec's concerts back then, he remembered every one of them!  We tried really hard to make all of them. You're a good Mom.
  • neuroticfitchmom
    I did WVU last year and it was good but most of it is just peer feedback.  I learned a ton but I guess it depends on what type of learning you are looking for.  :)
  • judyboy
    Ugh for annoying people and things... I let too many things bother me these days... can we buy some patience and tolerance in a bottle please?!
  • TheUnseenUndine
    I want to hear about how you met Ursula LeGuin, Grace Paley and Anne Lamott. Hopefully, you're still not a ball of pissed off! :D
  • SwiftOne
    Am anticipating the new home pictures.
  • anonymous
    You seem like a very loving mommie, that is cool
  • ydurp
    Were you able to get in?  Or was that you standing across from the info desk in the charcoal sweater?
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