Tuesday, March 11, 2008
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Moving On...
Don't stroke out...
I am on Spring Break... thus two post in two days. 
From the comments left on my previous post, I am certain that my last post was overly melodramatic, depressing, and sarcastic.
Let me just say, we are not about to be on the streets, not yet, and if we are then we will have a new fridge to take with us, along with a new stove top and microwave. I guess the economy and all the talk about the economy has me a bit concerned, but I do believe that things will get better... don't you? Jeez, I hope so.
As for my 19 year old son... well, I was his age around 1980, back when gas hit a dollar, and we had just wrapped up the Vietnam War a couple of years before, and there was an energy crisis, and poor Jimmy Carter looked like the biggest idiot in the world, because he couldn't wrap up the Iran Hostage Crisis, and then Reagan came in and wallah everything seems to be better...sounds a lot like today, huh?
Anyway, my point is, I was oblivious to how poor I was then. I moved out of the parents house and lived in a three room garage apartment, a bathroom, kitchen and bedroom, and I had a roommate. I worked for minimum wage and was having the time of my life. So, I am really okay with him making a road trip. I guess I just felt that he should have consulted with the owner of the car, and the person who pays the insurance on the car. That being said, I hope he has a wonderful time. He really is a good kid, compared to good ole mom at his age, and I completely trust him. I will learn to let go..., I still want to protect him from all the harshness in the world, and I just can't anymore. It is not my job. I have to remember these words my dad shared with me late one night over a glass of wine... dad was a smart guy too
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On Children
Kahlil GibranYour children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let our bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.Yes, he is all grown up now..., come on mom, be a trooper.
I am watching Oprah and The Osmond Brothers are on... when did we get this old? They are grey-headed and old looking, except for Donny, who is probably using that hair color for men.

This is what I remember... how many years ago was that?Tonight is AI..., I know many of you are not fans, but if you are definitely check out CynaraJane's post today. She has really done her AI homework.So, I leave you with warm, fuzzy, happy thoughts, and rainbow dreams, and ice cream kisses and so on and so on.
Peace, Love and Energy,
Currently Listening
20th Century Masters: Millennium Collection - The Best of Donny & Marie Osmond
By Donny Osmond & Marie
He Ain't Heavy, He's my Brother
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Comments (28)
Oh my gosh, the Osmond brothers! wow, yeah, I guess they're older than we are, huh?
I know I wouldn't want to be 19 yrs old again, kids have it a lot tougher today than they did back when we were growing up. We struggled to get by, but it seems like there was less pressure on us to succeed. (or maybe it's just me)
Kudos for 'giving' him the independence he needs. Don't worry, another 10 years, he'll be calling you up asking what does Mom think about this or that!
Take care, TTYL~
Love, Cyn
Hi...
It's hard to let them go out and live their own lives... and I have three of them to let go! Erik-26 and Todd-24 I don't see everyday... but Nick-22, is living at home at this time and it is very hard not to suggest (tell) him what I think he should do. : )
I probably drove my parents nuts, too, although they wouldn not have posted anything like Gibrahn. They would not have been as zen as you. :)
I'm glad your feeling a little better today.
I'm off to check CJ's site before AI !
Donny and Marie sure got the better end of the looks gene in that pool!
Watching AI as I type -- and so far I have to say I'm impressed with Chekieze and Carly! WTG!!!
I love the Osmonds.............always did...........enjoy your spring break.......hugs.
the osmonds & kahil Girbran--there's a blast from the past!
doesn't it make you a little crazy when you kids start doing all those wanna-be grown-up things? doesn't really make you crazy when they seem to be able to handle it better than you ever did when you tried those things? me, too...
ryc: i plan to go & pull some weeds out in the yard tomorrow since the weather is supposed to be nice & the ground should still be a bit damp from the recent rains. i hope i can work a bit on the arbor, too...
You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
-That's good stuff! I've heard of Gibran before but I didn't know this. Good!
I saw Donny 4 years ago in Joseph & The Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. He was great. Dang. His brothers are hurtin though. *feels old*
lovely, meaningful post. God bless you with economic prosperity. I think you have some of the other stuff down. much love
Kahlil Gibran gives good advice. When my daughters married, we included the practice of parents giving the couple a blessing: My blessing was a quote from "The Prophet" by Gibran.
The Osmonds - that brings back memories of the past for sure.
Yes, I do so HOPE things will get better! I read your previous post, too. I voted early by mail as my age qualified me. I find the Texas Two Step (seems as though there are more than two) confusing. I thought when I returned from Irish Fest on Monday, I'd spend that day and maybe Tuesday, election day, sleeping. Didn't happen. Much too busy with other stuff last week and on into this one.
Anyway, I am happy to see that you're taking advantage of spring break to blog.
~~Blessings, prayers 'n cheers
I'm on spring break as well. . .tomorrow I'm going to hear the guy who wrote the Black Lagoon books The Principal from the black lagoon/teacher from the black lagoon, etc, speak)
I'm on hormone therapy now as well. . .
I am listening to Donny right now!
ryc: They will be returning to Rochester tonight. They left Maui last Wednesday and then spent a week with Spaz... they didn't see snow there, but they will have plenty to view here when they arrive home!
Well hope you got the new appliances in today.........and wow you actually get a spring break???
Well I appreciate the compliments on the kitchen...hopefully the other half has no more major jobs lined up for awhile.....
AI....I was not overly impressed with how they butchered a lot of the Beatle songs.......it will be interesting to see who gets the boot...Have a great Thursday
SINK....I got it at Lowes....its Granite....and the nice thing is it is deep...and the faucet....pulls out and becomes a sprayer...pretty cool....the sink was a little pricey...at around $195 and the faucet on sale at $65 but it does set off the whole kitchen....send me a plane ticket Ill be right down......
Thanks for visiting me, Tricia. I appreciate it. RYC: Yes, I am busy, but it is necessary around St. Patrick's. However, I received some news this evening involving a prayer request & I'll be sending a private message on that.
~~Blessings, prayers 'n cheers
love this post...I identify..love the pics...love love Gibran...thinking of you..
I hope that you enjoy your spring break...26 days ago I started on this roller coaster ride...you see I am on the 26th day of my new life...it all started on Valentines day...if'n ya care to come and see...smile even tho it hurts
We are still looking for spring here. It was lovely in Sacramento....the trees were beautiful and in bloom. Hope the "Boy" is doing well. Did he survive the winter okay?