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| FloridaSo he has officially decided to move to Florida (it had been a possibility for awhile). I'm excited for him, and throughout the past two weeks I've encouraged that decision even though I knew it'd make things harder for us. I'll admit I'm scared about the whole situation. I really want things to work out for the two of us, and I'm hoping they will. | | |
| To be happy, that's the goal.I've heard quite often lately that it's just very easy for me to jump from relationship to relationship. Possibly it's something about me and my character, or maybe it has to do with an attraction on a physical level. I've always thought that it's important to be happy outside of a relationship before you consider being in one. I just don't think that you should spend so much time being miserable waiting for Mr. Right to come along in order for you to be happy again. What happened twenty years from now if you still haven't met him -- you look back on a life you didn't enjoy because of a incessant need to be with someone who hadn't come into your life yet. There's so much opportunity for happiness in your life that doesn't involve someone else being there on an relationship level. You can have friends who you spend your time with, do things you enjoy doing, and spend your life being 100% happy. So yes, I would like to believe that I've been able to meet people in my life because I spend so much of my time living it instead of sitting at home waiting. I would like to believe that I'm happy because of my attitude on life. I just hope people out there understand that as far as they know, they have just one life, and until Mr. Right comes along, they should spend it being happy. | | |
| First DateThings just could not have gone any better... | | |
| The Final TalkSo tonight I finally told him that I really just wanted to be friends, and was not looking to date him in the future. I feel like an ass, because I know I've really hurt him. How do you tell someone you really care about that you don't want to be with them, and not feel guilty about it? He honestly has been a very caring guy, it's just every now and then when he gets angry it really gets to me. I just couldn't take it forever. I really wanted to do something for myself, and be selfish for once. I wanted to be happy. Is your happiness really worth someone else's sadness? Should I continue to be unhappy instead of making him feel so much pain? | | |
| TruthIt's been all of maybe three-four days now since my relationship with my boyfriend/ex-boyfriend dissolved, and I'm still confused on what to do. Part of me wants to be back intothe relationship, because I'm scared for him and don't want him to fall. When we began dating three years ago, he was a complete mess. He was suffering financially and wasn't able to take care of himself (although at the time he didn't know). After having moved in with me, he's managed to pay off all of his bills and find himself a steady job, as well as begin going to school full-time. I'm very proud of his accomplishments, and i see how far along he has come. I'm just afraid though, that without the guidance he has been given here, that things for him will fail again. I really want him to do well in his life, and continue to succeed. He's a very caring guy who deserves to be happy. I just don't think I can continue to make him happy while I'm unhappy in the relationship. And in all honesty, I wasn't completely miserable. I do love him, just not in the way that I think I should. I just feel that I don't want to settle down with him, because I don't think I'd be happy forever. I want to get more experience from life, and although he has been great to me more recently, I don't think my feelings on this have changed. I'm just scared for him, and for as long as I live I'm going to value his friendship, because in the long run he's one of my best friends. | | |
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