I guess theres a much needed update.
I'm just not finding time to do so all too often.
I guess the biggest news is I'm pregnant. Yeh yeh yeh, I'm supposed to be a lesbian, and well still consider myself as such. In all honesty I'm getting pretty excited already. Everything is going so fast. I could do w/ out the constant nausea, as well as my bladder nearly exploding every hour or so or when someone says the word pee, not to mention the very very sore boobs. My family is surprisingly supportive, even my dad :). The baby's father isn't something I want to talk about right now I have a lot of mixed feelings in that area. I'm due January 6th 2009, goodness it seems like forever but so close at the same time. My first ultrasound is June 9th.
Oh theres so much more to say but I think I'm going to put on a movie and pass out I'm exhausted.
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Well, whatever your mixed feelings are, I would hope that the baby's father's PARENTS are supportive, too. Because that's going to be their grandchild, too. Whether they are right to life Christians or bible thumpers or have an attitude about you or whatever. Did you meet these people? If my son was involved with you I would buy you some clothing, I'd want to make sure that you had health insurance, I'd cook chicken noodle soup for you if you were bearing my grandchild. (Personally I have 2 teenaged sons, no daughters.)
Don't they want to buy your child a savings bond or zero coupon bond or something, some clothing, etc., do they have some dough, there are income tax and estate tax advantages to spoiling your grandchildren, I think they call that "inter vivos gifts" that reduce the size of the testamentary estate for IRS estate tax calculation purposes and that is a good thing. Keep the money in the family, don't give it away to the U.S. Government if you can avoid it.